How to obtain an orgasm from copulation to every lady?
The study of the smallest aspects of sensuality on the monuments of the Ancient East can make you the best among equals. As you know, to experience sexual ecstasy, it is not necessary to love someone with whom you make love. Often the state of ecstasy reach barely familiar with each other lovers or old friends, after many years of companionship accidentally found themselves in bed.
Even if everything turned out so well that you and your partner love each other, bliss in bed does not guaranteed. The fact is that the wealth of your emotions and feelings depends more on the state of your own spirit than on your relationship with another person. In Eastern cultures, unlike Western cultures, the importance of the integrity of the individual's sense of self has traditionally been emphasized, and sex has always been associated with spirituality. According to Eastern ideas, the soul and the body are inextricably linked, and therefore good sex can be a source of positive spiritual experience.
Case from practice
Harry and Penny. Harry was convinced that sex was more than a way to orgasm, but he was afraid to talk with Penny about it. She, for her part, felt that Harry wanted something more from sex, and was ready to discuss with him any of his proposals, but did not dare to start a conversation.
HARRY is 24. Graduate student, not married
Harry was a serious, mature man. He studied Oriental studies and, imitating the Japanese, led a very ascetic life.
I always expected a lot from sex. I thought that it would be something divine, that orgasm is a rapid ascent, accompanied by a feeling of purity, light and bliss spreading through the body. I've read a lot about the connection between sex and spirituality, and I believe that connection is strong. We have sex – something mechanical and too fast. I wish I could slow things down, be more frivolous and sentimental, but I get the feeling that if I tried, she'd think I was out of my mind. For her, sex is first her orgasm, then mine, and that's it. We have orgasms all right, but then every time I think, «Is that all?» Everything goes so smoothly, so smoothly, if not flat.
PENNY is 22 years old. Nurse, single
Penny had a deliberately cheerful and dispassionate voice, but she was more vulnerable than she seemed at first glance.
I can see that Harry is worried about something; the trouble is, I don't know what it is. Maybe he's afraid I'll feel rejected. The fact that Harry is my first lover, and although I have a lot of ideas about sex, in practice I have never used them. I'm sure if you really love someone, you'll do anything for the partner in bed. I love Harry very much. But he never asks me for anything, and I really want him to do it. How am I going to get Harry to talk to me?
Sexologist's opinion
To experience sexual ecstasy, it is not necessary to love someone with whom you make love. Often the state of ecstasy reach barely familiar with each other lovers or old friends, after many years of companionship accidentally found themselves in bed. Even if everything turned out so well that you and your partner love each other, bliss in bed does not guaranteed. The fact is that the wealth of your emotions and feelings depends more on the state of your own spirit than on your relationship with another person.
If you manage to combine love and sexual ecstasy, you can envy. If not, it may be useful for you to adopt some elements of traditional Eastern sexual practices. Eastern erotic tradition with its attention to the smallest aspects of sensuality emphasizes the importance of the individual, independent of the partner sexual potential. Harry got acquainted with this tradition and appreciated it. As soon as Harry realized that behind the deliberate seriousness and businesslike of Penny hiding passionate, submissive and at the same time strong nature, he ceased to be afraid to push her away by his frankness.
Harry shared his thoughts with Penny, and she accepted them. Thanks to his self-confidence and her lively susceptibility, young people managed to realize their sexual potential; their intimate relations became more emotionally saturated, began to bring both much more joy than before. I advised Harry and Penny to try a series of simple and useful exercises. These here: spend 15 minutes lying in bed and just caressing each other; 5 minutes to kiss each other's ears, neck and shoulders; synchronous breathing, looking into each other's eyes; to do exercise «deer»; together to do a technique, providing a deeper orgasm, and finally, to refrain from orgasm during every forth lovemaking.