How to reach rapture?
The teaching of Tao likens the female orgasm to a blossoming flower, which appears in all its glory only when all its petals are fully revealed under the gentle sun - so the woman opens up and gives herself to the power of a man who takes her and leads to the heights of ecstasy. According to the Taoists, a woman can achieve a genuine orgasm only through complete dedication in sexual intercourse with a man. Of course, Masturbation often causes orgasmic reactions identical to those that occur during sexual intercourse, but in the teachings of Tao they are simply not considered.
In fairness, it should be noted that in different circumstances, emotional and physiological reactions may be different, which, of course, is reflected in the completeness of sensations. Tao, however, claims that upon reaching the ninth level of orgasm, the energy of the woman certainly is involved completely.
Phase 1. NINE LEVELS OF ORGASM
In Western culture, the topic of female orgasm varieties was almost never discussed, and only a few years ago there was a discussion about vaginal and clitoral orgasm. In one of my books, I touched on this topic, considering in some detail the differences in the duration and intensity of orgasm, its localization and depending on the mental and physical condition of the woman.
The teaching of Tao goes further, describing the female orgasm as a series of successive sensations, each of which is sharper and deeper than the previous one. Rising from level to level, the woman more and more fully opens before the man who helps her to open and experience the highest pleasure. The nine levels of orgasm, as understood by Tao, are listed on the next page. More information can be found in the book of Stephen Chang «the Tao of sexology».
As a rule, a Western man, not knowing about the multi-stage female orgasm, ceases to stimulate a woman when she reaches the fourth level. Therefore often the woman's orgasm is incomplete. If to continue stimulation further, she will enjoy an orgasm much more fully.
Many Western sexologists have a positive attitude to Taoist ideas about female orgasm, but, as a rule, do not take them literally. In particular, in our days, experts necessarily note that ecstatic experiences, from the point of view of Taoists achievable only in sexual intercourse with a man, are often observed in masturbation, and lesbian sex. As for the doctrine of the nine levels of orgasm, it is almost not objectionable.
Indeed, all women capable of orgasm are probably familiar with at least some of the nine. The first four levels (which almost all women pass through) are characterized by hard breathing, passionate kisses and hugs, and finally a series of vaginal spasms accompanied by vaginal fluid release. At the next five levels, achieved by continued stimulation, the body movements become more and more frantic at first, but then the muscles relax and the woman is completely exhausted and falls into a semi-unconscious state.
Phase 2. PASSING THROUGH THE NINE LEVELS OF ORGASM
The question arises: how can a man lead a partner through all levels of orgasm? For a start, he should certainly do all that it was the first four. This will help a variety of preliminary games, including masturbation, tongue caresses, and maybe oral sex. It is important that a woman begins the path to orgasm before the actual sexual act begins.
When a woman reaches orgasm, a man should not think that «it's done.» He should continue stimulation, including sexual intercourse, without changing the pace and intensity of movements.
Continuing stimulation, the man will feel that orgasmic reductions at the woman renew, and the mimicry and gestures testify to more and deeper feelings. At some point, the orgasm will reach the stage when a woman from the strongest sensations will become completely helpless. At this stage, the partner, if a woman likes it, may change the way of stimulation.
From the point of view of Tao followers, Western women usually reach only the fourth level of orgasm. This is due to the fact that the partners too early stop the stimulation.
All nine levels
Each level of orgasm awakens the energy of certain parts of the female body and causes specific types of reactions.
- Level 1 (lungs): the woman is breathing heavily and has increased salivation
- Level 2 (heart): kissing a man, a woman caresses him by her tongue
- Level 3 (spleen, pancreas and stomach): the woman is tightly pressed against the man
- Level 4 (kidney and bladder): vaginal spasms, vaginal secretion expiration
- Level 5 (skeleton): joints weaken, the woman begins to bite the partner
- Level 6 (liver and nerves): the woman wriggles, trying to wrap her arms and legs around her partner
- Level 7 (blood): the blood is «boiling», the woman tries to cling to the man with her whole body
- Level 8 (muscles): the muscles are completely relaxed; the woman bites and grabs the man's nipples
- Level 9 (whole body): the woman is exhausted, completely «exposed» and all in the power of the man
When you reach the ninth level of orgasm, the feeling of bliss will spread throughout the body.